From his book ‘Changed Through His Grace,’ Brad Wilcox shared:
- Brad, I already lost a baby girl early in my marriage. The prospect of burying another child has almost been my undoing, but I am at peace. My spirit is strong enough though physically I am worn out. Jesus has carried my boy through the darkest hours. My redeemer has sustained him in his weakest moments. My Savior has supported him through every second of pain. He has done the same for me. How can I fail to trust Him now? Sometimes He calms the storms. Sometimes he calms us in the midst of the storms. I’m good either way.
Much has happened to Tyler since he approached me and asked if he could take his final early. Recently, Tyler said, “Who knows what’s ahead? I am going to return to BYU and keep working toward graduation, but the tumor is not going away. The best the doctors can do is try to keep it from growing. I am in the Lord’s hands.” Tyler is choosing faith independent of outcome. He is choosing to hope, and when it fades, he hopes for more hope. He is choosing to welcome grace and find joy, come what may.
Tyler’s attitude reminds me of the words that were spoken of Alma and his missionary companions: “Yea, and [Christ] also gave them strength, that they should suffer no manner of afflictions, save it were swallowed up in the joy of Christ” (Alma 31:38). We need not fear change. In His grace the Lord has promised, “Wherefore fear not even unto death; for in this world your joy is not full, but in me your joy is full” (Doctrine and Covenants 101:36). ~Brad Wilcox, Changed Through His Grace (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2017, 230-233, Dwarsligger© edition)