I appreciate the following because it is so easy to get into the wrong perspective and stay there… for years, for decades. kdm
Elder Boyd K. Packer said: “It is understood of almost everyone that success, to be complete, must include a generous portion of both fame and fortune as essential ingredients. The world seems to work on that premise. The premise is false. It is not true. The Lord taught otherwise. True happiness is not based on wealth or fame… You need not be either rich or hold high position to be completely successful and truly happy. In fact, if these things come to you, and they may, true success must be achieved in spite of them, not because of them.
It is remarkably difficult to teach this truth. If one who is not well known, and not well compensated, claims that he has learned for himself that neither fame nor fortune are essential to success, we tend to reject his statement as self-serving. What else could he say and not count himself a failure? If someone who has possession of fame or fortune asserts that neither matters to success or happiness, we suspect that his expression can also be self-serving, even patronizing. Therefore, we will not accept as reliable authorities either those who have fame and fortune or those who have not. We question that neither can be an objective witness.
That leaves only one course open to us: trial and error to learn for oneself, by experience, about prominence and wealth of their opposites. We thereafter struggle through life, perhaps missing both fame and fortune, to finally learn one day that one can, indeed, succeed without possessing either. Or we may, one day, have both and learn that neither has made us happy; neither is basic to the recipe for true success and for complete happiness. That is a very slow way to learn.
We come into mortal life to receive a body and to be tested, to learn to choose. We want our children and their children to know that the choice of life is not between fame and obscurity, nor is the choice between wealth and poverty. The choice is between good and evil, and that is a very different matter indeed.”~From ‘Memorable Stories with a Message’ by Boyd K. Packer, p.129, ISBN 1-57345-788-4
